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Questions to Get Our Children to Talk

QUESTIONS TO GET OUR CHILDREN TO TALK . . . 

  • Tell me about the best part of our day.

  • Tell me something you would change about today.

  • What was the hardest thing you had to do today?

  • Did any of your classmates do anything funny?

  • Tell me about what you read in class.

  • What's the biggest difference between this year and last year?

  • Who did you sit with at lunch?

  • Can you show me something you learned (or did) today?

TIPS:

  • LISTEN to the entire story. Don't interrupt to ask questions. This turns a conversation into an inquisition for a child.

  • Avoid YES or NO questions.

  • Know when your child is most open to talk and use that time.

  • Don't push answers, they will share, as long as the conversation has been started.

  • Follow their lead - talk about whatever they want to talk about. The important stuff will come.